Tuesday 2 December 2014

It's all gone Pear Shaped

This over 40 lark is pretty cool, most of the time. But occasionally age sneaks up and catches you unawares, rocking the thirty-something boat you had been comfortably sailing in and dragging you back to reality. It can be quite a shock.

Of course, age, or "ageing" can be a beautiful thing. And whilst there is certainly a tipping point (I would deny embracing each birthday with the enthusiasm my children do) I have relished aspects of time's inevitable progress. Occasionally it even seems I get "one over" on the years - slipping back into my pre-twin pregnancy jeans a week after delivery was certainly impressive - but what matters most to me, and indeed to most women, is feeling in control. Surprises I can do without.

No longer shopping in GAP sale because your parenting style is less "Toddler Taming up close and personal" and more "stroppy tweens from a distance" is certainly liberating. But that in effect is taking back control a little, identifying with your own needs. So when there is a lack of reciprocal cooperation from the body you have (for the most part) completely ignored for most of the past twenty years it seems reasonable that it should just have been placed "on hold" until you had time to get back to it...... I never thought for a minute it might have started to change - at least a little.  After all , I'm IN it, I would have noticed, right?

Wrong. Gravity has struck back and appears to have taken the first round.

What is particularly infuriating, is that this hasn't crept up on me in a slow, inevitable process over a couple of years. Neither have I gained weight. It is simply a case of Middle-Aged Spread. Or more precisely.... Middle-Aged Spreading Out.


Photo courtesy of Kiran Foster via Flickr Creative Commons

I'm not that vain, I almost never weigh myself and barely cast a glance in any available mirror. I don't have time - or the remotest inclination. But I do expect the "me" that looks back when I DO choose to focus beyond the varifocals at my reflection to be somewhat familiar.

Is that totally unreasonable?

So yesterday I was brought up short (literally) as I saw myself in our full length landing mirror, actually pausing long enough to register the image reflected. At 5'9" I'm a pretty lanky sort of girl, the GAP "Long and Lean" variety when it comes to jeans. But yesterday for a fleeting moment I thought someone had swapped our mirror for a fairground one as I appeared shorter and, well... with a rear end more J-Lo than previously. More "pear" than usual you might say..... more "Curvy" than "Long and Lean" at any rate.

A quick weight check reassured me that I really hadn't been scoffing chocolate biscuits whilst sleep walking, so I am forced to face the inevitable. That it's time to start telling people tall and skinny is SO last year and I'm embracing my inner Pear. Booty is Bootiful.

Now I just need to book into that Latin dance class......



16 comments:

  1. Oh blimey! I'm getting worried now - two years to go and it could all be downhill for me!

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  2. So funny and so familiar! The battle with gravity is what's getting me at the moment..;everything is heading south and it isn't a favourable change. Inevitable I guess, so best not to look too much, but I hear you about wanting to at least recognise the body reflected back in the mirror!

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  3. I no longer look in the full length mirror unless I am not wearing my glasses - soft fuzzy focus is so comforting!

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  4. No sympathy from me, sorry, coz I've always been pear shaped!!! Though actually I know exactly what you mean - at 42 it seems your tummy starts growing outwards :/

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  5. I've been battling with my weight for forever - I keep hearing that 40 is when you stop worrying about it - I'm hopeful!

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  6. I hate full length mirrors to be honest! :) I always see myself as a short with massive hips and monster like feet.

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  7. I noticed exactly the same thing at 40 sadly. I'm 45 in a couple of days and middle aged spread has taken up permanent residence and brought a stone or so along to keep it company!

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  8. eeep!! best get on the cross trainer once this baby is out then ;)

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  9. It's much harder to lose weight past 40!

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  10. I am not even a pear, but a big fat juicy apple!

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  11. I look like an oompaloompa these days - but I tell myself that birthing three ten pounders will do that to a person. I'm just investing in more Spanx ;)

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  12. Well this mince pie is suddenly looking less appealing ;) x

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  13. I read that with a smile on my face :-) One look at the tabloids will tell you how with it you are (and me too!) Booty IS beautiful x

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  14. I just look at the scales and walk away these days!

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  15. I am so with you......my weight is going down but where it is going from I just don't know

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  16. hmmm maybe this is just your evil mirror... some of them can be pretty horrible :-)

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