Saturday, 30 May 2015
The difference between teaching and learning
Not one of my four children have been taught to code. Yet three of them can, and one is extremely adept. For me, coding is on the event horizon of education - or Education (capital E), because we still misunderstand how children learn and persist in seeking to quantify, quality check and present a body of information to be relayed to the next generation as if Gladstonian Liberalism were still the cutting edge of education planning. I believe the Coding question will define how the next generation of children learn, and what is fascinating is that we had the answer all along.
Friday, 15 May 2015
Somewhere over the rainbow...
But you know what they say about planning too far in advance!
I always wanted a large family, ideally 4 or 5 children. However I hadn’t bargained on the chronic health and developmental issues my brood share between them - or our shared infertility. We managed to delude ourselves that #3 would be free of gastro issues and were utterly in denial over our second son’s Autism at that point, but when #3 turned out to be #3 AND #4 we realised we had as much as we could cope with. Possibly more at times….. It was a no-brainer deciding that we are done!!
That, however is different from "feeling" you're done. I do really miss the tiny baby thing, wish like hell that I could do the early months again with any of them without reflux and pain, I feel really cheated on that score. The constant screaming was a bit wearing when everyone else seemed to get at least 10 minutes a day cuddling their new babies - and unless you have survived on less than 4 hours sleep for months on end you won’t appreciate how much we were “surviving” rather than living.
Friday, 24 April 2015
No diagnosis? What's the Big Deal?
Today is Undiagnosed Children's Day. And yes, every day is a particular awareness day now it seems, and yes, it's Allergy Awareness Week too and I already blogged about that on my Recipe Blog.... but this one, this day, really REALLY matters.
You would be forgiven for thinking a diagnosis is an expected and usually almost inevitable end point when you or your child is referred for consideration of a collection of symptoms, often present since birth. Indeed when you are first sent to hospital with your baby you have high expectations of enlightenment from the medical profession, and although no one seeks a "label" to define their child, it's a commonly accepted fact that a diagnosis in the UK is a passport to services, support, understanding and a pathway to appropriate supportive - and preventative care.
So you might be shocked to learn that it is not given similar status by Consultants and health professionals. Indeed, there is a culture in this country of diagnosis avoidance, a pretence that by hiding from the logical, avoiding the obvious or avoiding searching for the unexpected they are in some way leaving doors open to you or your child.
Friday, 17 April 2015
I'm hoping for an ASD, ADHD, Down's and Spina Bifida Baby......
Because all parents-to-be, when starting trying for a baby, hope their offspring will be as healthy and happy as possible. Because we are human, because we associate good health and happiness with wellbeing and they are surely two of the most important gifts to bestow on anyone. Surely that can't be controversial?
And equally, once that tiny bundle arrives in your arms, you love it unconditionally, and want the very best for your child. It doesn't matter what peaks and troughs there are ahead on the roller coaster of life, you're in it for the long haul and are your child's fiercest advocate. Irrespective of anything. And that shouldn't be controversial either.
Wednesday, 8 April 2015
SATS - a sandwich, not a hot potato.
The question is not "Should we have SATS, and are they good for our children?"
Wednesday, 1 April 2015
Light it up Blue
A sobering thought, don’t you think?
But what if the word “excluded” didn’t refer to a single incident at all?
I still have a stack of fixed-term exclusion notices for H from when he was very young — forty-six of them, all issued before he was six and a half, and more than a year after his Autism diagnosis. It raises an unavoidable question: what exactly is happening in our schools when children with recognised developmental conditions are repeatedly excluded for behaviours that are fundamentally part of their condition?
Despite the tireless efforts of the National Autistic Society, local groups and countless parents, teachers are still entering the profession without the preparation they need to support autistic pupils. My own PGCE allocated half a day to SEN as a whole — nowhere near enough time even to familiarise ourselves with the full spectrum of physical, emotional, behavioural and medical needs we were likely to encounter, let alone explore how to teach and support children with them. And beyond training lies a deeper reality: for many autistic children, mainstream school is simply not an appropriate environment. Forcing a square peg into a round hole was never going to work, no matter how determined the adults involved.
As a parent of autistic children and a qualified teacher, I’ve learned more about learning, development and support than any lecture could have given me, yet ironically I wouldn’t currently be eligible to bring that experience into a classroom. Years spent caring for my children — writing every word of my son’s Statement myself — do not count as “official” experience. It’s a reminder of the odd, persistent divide between parental expertise and professional structures, and of why many families still feel they are battling the Local Authority simply to secure the support their children need. It doesn’t have to be that adversarial. In many cases, the simplest route to inclusion is to acknowledge that there is no single “correct” way to learn, and that expecting children to fit one predetermined mould is where the problems begin.
Friday, 20 March 2015
Quantum Happiness
Of course it was.
This was the month when Chaos Theory and Quantum Mechanics coincided spectacularly and too many crucial atoms decided to take a vacation from my head. At least - that's my excuse, and I'm sticking to it!
H is currently obsessed with Physics. His school have been amazing, going out of their way to provide opportunities for him to extend his knowledge and enthusiasm for the subject. He's now got a sixth form mentor to discuss his favourite topics with, an inspirational Physics teacher who meets to discuss "String Theory" and those cats that guy called Schrödinger seems rather fond of too. He even attended a Year 12 class on Quantum Theory this week - not bad when you are only Year 8. (Apparently he kept the 16 and 17 year olds on their toes, and they were nice enough to not only accept him in the group but include him in their sharing of a bag of Haribo...) When he's not in lessons he's in the library, reading psychology and philosophy and planning his future education. It's a tough life being 13.
This fantastic progress is due to the gift of one thing from a number of individuals. Time. All those involved in teaching and supporting H have given a little extra of their valuable time, an investment in his current and his future happiness.





